[영어필링] Be (status) '상태' vs. Get (event) '동작/행동'
Be (status) '상태' vs. Get (event) '동작'
A : (sigh.....)
B : You look dispirited. Are you depressed of something?
(우울한 거야, 아님 무슨 일 있어? --> '너의 상태')
A : No, I am actually upset! Tanya is too outspoken, and she doesn't seem to care about how I feel at all!
(아니, 사실 나 화났어! ---> '화난 상태' / 타냐는 너무 노골적으로 말해. --> '타냐의 성격, 상태 ')
B : What happened?
A : Her father plans to retire soon, and she wants me to take over his company.
B : You guys are getting married soon, why don't you listen to her? Don't you like his job?
A : I don't dislike it. I'm just afraind of change.
(난 그저 변화가 두려울 뿐이야. --> ' 두려운 상태' )
B : Did you say that to her?
A : Yes, and you know what she said? "Are you a man or a mouse?"
(넌 대체 남자야, 뭐야? -->'너의 상태' 를 물어보는 상황)
B : That's mean! I mean she was over the top.
(너무 했네! --> 그렇게 말한 것은 '너무한 상황 / 상태' )
A : I used to enjoy her sarcasm, but that doesn't fly with me any more.
동사 Be 를 쓴 이유 는 ,
화가 난 상태 였거나, Tanya의 성격, 화자의 심리/ 감정 상태(두려움) 등의
표현을 '상태'를 말하고 있기 때문.
You look dispirited. 너 의기소침해 보여.
dispirited [dɪˈspirətid] a.
- not feeling much hope about a particular situation or problem.
- opposite spirited
Tanya is too outsopken. 타냐는 너무 말을 노골적으로 해. (남의 기분 상관없이)
outspoken [ aʊt'spoʊkən ] a.
- expressing strong opinions very directly without worrying
if other people are offended.
offended [əˈfendɪd] a.
- upset and angry, often because someone has been rede.
She was over the top. 도가 지나쳤다고.
over the top
- too extreme and not suitable, or demanding too much attention of effort,
especially in an uncontrolled way.
demanding
- needing a lot of time, attention, or energy.
ex) It is a technically demanding piece of music to play.
uncontrolled
- existing or happening with nothing able to stop it.
sarcasm [sɑːrkæzəm ] n.
- the use of remarks that clearly mean the opposite of what they say,
madae in order to hurt someone's feelings or to criticize something in a humorous way.
that doesn't fly with me
- 나한테는 안 웃겨 / 안 통해. (농담 따위가 재미없을 때 쓸 수 있는 표현)
G : I'm very fond of Mickey. He's really nice guy, and he never gets upset. I think he is marriage material.
(그는 정말 좋은 사람이야, 절대로 한 번도 화를 내는 법이 없어. --> ' 화를 내는 행동')
* marriage material : 결혼할 만한 제목
S : I'm sorry, but to me, it looks like your love has blinded you. He does get upset.
(그 사람 화내기도 해. -->'화를 내는 행동' 을 말하고 있다)
The other day, when I cut in line at the bank, he got so upset with me.
(내가 은행에서 새치기를 좀 했는데, 화를 엄청 내더라. --> '화를 내는 행동'을 보고 말하는 것)
G : Really? Please tell me more about him. I want to know all his likes and dislikes.
S : Okay, never mind! (Sarcastically) He's an angel!
get 을 쓴 이유,
화가 난 혹은 나지 않은 상태를 말하려는 것이 아니라,
'화를 내는 행위(동작)'을 말하고 있기 때문이다.
be happy (행복한 '상태'에 있다)
get happy (행복해지다 - 행복하려는 '행동'을 하는 것)
J : My nine-month-old boy gets happy whenever I sit him in his rocking chair. He won't get out of it.
(9개월 된 우리 아들은 언제든 내가 개를 흔들의자에 앉히기만 하면 행복해해. --> '행복해하는 행동')
I wish I could get happy easily like him.
(나도 그 애처럼 쉽게 행복해질 수 있으면 좋겠어 --> '행복해지려는' 행동)
M : I read somewhere that happiness is a choice. So I choose to be happy, and I am always happy.
(행복은 선택이라고 내가 어디서 읽었어. 그래서 내가 행복하기로 선택하면, 나는 항상 행복한 거지.)
I'm telling you. Just change your mindset, and you won't need "something" in order to get happy.
*I'm telling you. 내 말 들어봐 봐! 내 말 믿어.
J : I agree that your happiness is your choice, but sometimes it's hard to practice.
M : Let's me tell you this story. I know a guy who's always happy. Surprisingly, he ran away at the age of 15
*run away (성인이 되기 전에) 가출하다.
because his parents abused him. After that, he went through extreme hardships in life.
*go through (고난이나 어려움 등을) 겪다.
I heard he overcame all the difiicitulties. The thing is I would have never guessed that until he told me
because he's such a positive person.
J : You've got a point there. All right! Now I'm a happy soul!
*You've got a point there. 너의 말에 일리가 있어. (난 이제 행복한 사람이다~!--> 행복한 상태)
M : You've made the right choice!
너는 올바른 선택을 한거야!